Books for Parents of Gifted Children

This handout provides a list of some of the most useful, helpful, and informative books available for parents of gifted children. Most are available through Amazon.com and some are available through SIS. Summaries, reviews, and synopses are taken from Amazon.com, except where otherwise stated.)   You can find additional books about and for gifted children at Gifts for Learning.

Accidental Genius Accidental Genius by Kevin and Cassidy Kearney, 1998, Woodshed Press

Synopsis
Experienced home schoolers, Kevin and Cassidy Kearney explain in an easy-to-read guide-- packed with examples-- how you can take charge of the education of your gifted/special needs children.Experts Kevin and Cassidy Kearney show you:


Counseling the Gifted and Talented by Linda Kreger Silverman (Editor), 1993, Love Publishing Company

Review
This book is the absolute best resource I have found for understanding the many and complex needs of gifted children. Her section on the "Gifted Over-Excitabilites" is tremendously helpful to parents, teachers and counselors working with this population. A copy belongs in every gifted education program as resource material for teachers and parents.



Edison Trait The Edison Trait : Saving the Spirit of Your Nonconforming Child, by Lucy Jo Palladino, 1997, Times Books

Review
Psychologist Lucy Jo Palladino claims that 20 percent of children have what she calls the Edison trait: "dazzling intelligence, an active imagination, a free-spirited approach to life, and the ability to drive everyone around them crazy." She named the trait after Thomas Edison, who flunked out of school despite his obvious brilliance. Palladino says that Edison-trait children think divergently, while the routines and structure of schools are more geared toward convergent thinking, or focusing on one idea at a time. The incompatible school environment, she says, usually leads divergent-thinking children to act out, receive poor grades, and often be labeled as strong-willed and disruptive.

These symptoms may sound similar to those of ADD, but Palladino says that's an overused term often mistakenly applied to Edison-trait children. "In most cases," she says, "ADD behavior patterns are comparable to but more extreme than the typical patterns of an Edison-trait child who does not have ADD." A diagnosis of ADD does not take into consideration factors such as "intelligence, perceptiveness, sensitivity, creativity, and wit."

With many references to scientific studies, Palladino helps you decide whether your child is one of the three types of Edison-trait children: dreamer, discoverer, or dynamo. She also gives pointed, practical advice regarding such controversial topics as diet, neurofeedback treatment, and psychological testing. For frustrated parents and educators, Dreamers, Discoverers, and Dynamos will be a rich source of both help and hope.

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Exceptionally Gifted Children, by Miraca Gross, 1993, Routledge

Review
My child is very bright. Why does he have so much trouble in school? Exceptionally Gifted Children details the research of Ms. Gross into the world of these children. Through her eyes, get to know more than a dozen highly gifted children and their families, and follow their failures and successes in the education system. Although the venue is Australia, this book could just as well have been written about education in America. It's a 'must read' for parents and educators of exceptionally gifted children around the world.


Gifted Kids Speak Out: Hundreds of Kids Ages 6-13 Talk About School, Friends, Their Families, and the Future, by Jim Delisle, Ph.D., Free Spirit Press.

Summary (from Free Spirit Press, http://www.freespirit.com/)
Based on a survey of 6,000 kids from 37 states and countries, this candid, refreshing book reveals what gifted kids really think and feel. "Speak for Yourself" sections invite readers to get involved and explore their own feelings about being gifted

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Gifted Kids' Survival Guide The Gifted Kids’ Survival Guide For Ages 10 & Under (Revised and Updated Edition), by Judy Galbraith, M.A., Free Spirit Press.

First published in 1984, newly revised and updated, this book has helped countless young gifted children realize they're not alone and being smart, talented and creative is a bonus--not a burden. It answers their questions about why they think and learn the way they do, and what "giftedness" and IQ really mean, and how to handle high expectations.


Growing Up Gifted : Developing the Potential of Children at Home and at School, by Barbara Clark, 1997, Merrill Pub Co.

Summary (from back cover)
A significant revision of one the best-selling books for gifted education. KEY TOPICS: This new edition is shorter, more practical and each chapter now begins with a case study. There is also a new, first chapter that explores and explains the controversy surrounding the definition of giftedness and the gifted child's right to special programs. Throughout the latter half of the book, the author provides a multitude of teaching strategies appropriate for students of all ages.



Guiding the Gifted ChildGuiding the Gifted Child : A Practical Source for Parents and Teachers, by James T. Webb, Elizabeth A. Meckstroth, Stephanie S. Tolan (Contributor), 1989, Gifted Psychology Press

Book Description
Gifted children have special emotional and intellectual needs. Their characteristics, combined with current educational practices, often put them at risk for problems. This award winning book contains chapters on motivation, discipline, peer relationships, sibling relationships, stress management, depression and many other issues that parents and teachers encounter daily with these children. This book has been called "The Dr. Spock book for parents of gifted children" and has sold over 90,000 copies.

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Guiding the Social and Emotional Development of Gifted Youth : A Practical Guide for Educators and Counselors, by James R. Delisle

Social and emotional issues of the gifted child are discussed.  Dr. Delisle is a passionate defender of gifted children.

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Keys to ParentingKeys to Parenting the Gifted Child (Barron's Parenting Keys), by Sylvia B., Ph.D. Rimm, 1994, Barrons Educational Series. 

Synopsis
Gifted children deserve the opportunity to learn all that they're capable of learning, at their own--unusually rapid--pace. In this book, an expert gives advice on how parents can discover whether or not their child is actually gifted, and how to select preschool and kindergarten programs.

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Raising Your Spirited ChildRaising Your Spirited Child : A Guide for Parents Whose Child Is More Intense, Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, and Energetic, by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, 1992, Harperperennial Library.

Review
Recently, temperament traits have come to the forefront of child development theory. In Raising Your Spirited Child, Mary Sheedy Kurcinka's first contribution is to redefine the "difficult child" as the "spirited" child, a child that is, as she says, MORE. Many people are leery about books that are too quick to "type" kids, but Kurcinka, a parent of a spirited child herself and a parent educator for 20 years, doesn't fall into that trap. Instead, she provides tools to understanding your own temperament as well as your child's. When you understand your temperamental matches--and your mismatches--you can better understand, work, live, socialize, and enjoy spirit in your child. By reframing challenging temperamental qualities in a positive way, and by giving readers specific tools to work with these qualities, Kurcinka has provided a book that will help all parents, especially the parents of spirited children, understand and better parent their children.


Reviving OpheliaReviving Ophelia : Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls, by Mary Bray Pipher, 1995, Ballantine Books.

Review
At adolescence, says Mary Pipher, "girls become 'female impersonators' who fit their whole selves into small, crowded spaces." Many lose spark, interest, and even IQ points as a "girl-poisoning" society forces a choice between being shunned for staying true to oneself and struggling to stay within a narrow definition of female. Pipher's alarming tales of a generation swamped by pain may be partly informed by her role as a therapist who sees troubled children and teens, but her sketch of a tougher, more menacing world for girls often hits the mark. She offers some prescriptions for changing society and helping girls resist.


Survival Guide for ParentsThe Survival Guide for Parents of Gifted Kids : How to Understand, Live With, and Stick Up for Your Gifted Child, by Sally Yahnke Walker, Susan K. Perry, 1991, Free Spirit Press

Review
Practical, applicable advice. I bought this book by chance and it has been a great help for us with our 8 yr. old son. At some points, it's too "older kid" heavy...so if you're looking for a book w/ advice on dealing with young Gifted Kids this probably isn't for you. BUT, if you've got school age kids and are beginning to think about or are currently dealing with a gifted kid in school you can get a lot of help in how to deal with all the quirks these kids have and do at home/school. It's helped me help my perfectionistic son.

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Teaching Gifted Kids in the Regular ClassroomTeaching Gifted Kids in the Regular Classroom : Strategies and Techniques Every Teacher Can Use to Meet the Academic Needs of the Gifted and Talented, by Susan Winebrenner, Pamela Espeland (Editor), 1992, Free Spirit Press.

Review
This book is a classic. It is a very good "how to" book for teachers. It is full of practical information and examples that teachers can use in their classroom. It is an excellent book for parents to use to advocate for gifted education with their teachers and in their school districts. The techniques are very low cost and easy to understand. A must read and must have!

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Teaching Young Gifted ChildrenTeaching Young Gifted Children in the Regular Classroom: Identifying, Nurturing, and Challenging Ages 4-9, by Joan Franklin Smutny, M.A., Sally Yahnke Walker, Ph.D. and Elizabeth A. Meckstroth, M.Ed., M.S.W.

Synopsis (from Free Spirit Press http://www.freespirit.com/)
Most schools don't formally identify children as "gifted" until the third or fourth grade. By then, some of the brightest children have become bored, resentful underachievers. Written for educators (and parents) who believe that all children deserve the best education we can give them, this guide encourages and enables you to identify gifted children as early as age 4 and create a learning environment that supports all students.


They Say My Kid is GiftedThey Say My Kid is Gifted: Now What? by F. Richard Olenchak

Book Description
They Say My Kid's Gifted: NOW WHAT? acts as a quick, easy-to-use guide for parents of gifted kids. This handbook offers a jargon-free introduction to working with schools to help ensure a quality education experience for gifted kids. From understanding identification procedures and choosing a teacher, to ensuring a child's success with a gifted program and curriculum, this book is an essential read for any parent working with schools. This resource also includes a discussion of gifted education in the regular classroom setting and a special section devoted to solutions for "when all else fails." They Say My Kid's Gifted: NOW WHAT? is complete with an extensive listing of state and national resources. This book is a service publication of the National Association for Gifted Children.